No Longer a Hugger in New York: how to navigate shifting personal boundaries

12/20/24 • 7 min

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In this episode of Jenny Says So, modern-day etiquette expert Jenny tackles a heartfelt question from "No Longer a Hugger in New York." Jenny explores how to navigate shifting personal boundaries, particularly when it comes to physical greetings like hugs. She shares practical advice on communicating changes with warmth and honesty, while also addressing the reactions of friends who might struggle to adapt. With empathy and curiosity, Jenny guides listeners on how to maintain meaningful relationships while honoring their own comfort and autonomy.

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Thank you to Taylor for providing the voice over work, and the theme song is provided by simonarmitage, Pond5.

We'd love to know what you think about this episode! Have a question for Jenny? Head to the link and let us know. All questions are totally anonymous.

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Thank you to Taylor for providing the voice over work, and the theme song is provided by simonarmitage, Pond5.

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Welcome to Jenny Says So Podcast

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Welcome to Jenny Says So—the podcast where modern etiquette meets real life. I’m Jenny, a modern-day etiquette expert, former wedding officiant & professional, and co-founder of the first registry platform for divorce support. With 20 years of studying religion and communities under my belt, and as the creator of the VASE Method of communication I have a lot of opinions about what etiquette is and what it should be. I’ve been featured in Time Magazine, The New York Times, Real Simple, and more talking about everything from the least worst way to cancel your wedding to gifting in awkward circumstances.

My superpower? Knowing when to leave the party—and I’m here to answer all your questions about boundaries, manners, and navigating life as a human in this wild world. Each week, I’ll tackle one of your questions and break it down in a way that’s approachable, not stressful, because etiquette doesn’t have to be archaic or stuffy. Let’s leave the outdated rules behind and redefine how we connect. Follow Jenny Says So on your favorite podcast platform, and head to FreshStartsRegistry.com/JennySaysSo to send your questions (they can be anonymous!) —I can’t wait to hear from you!

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Don’t want to feel weird in Wyoming: how to handle greeting people in professional settings

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In this episode of Jenny Says So, modern-day etiquette expert Jenny tackles a relatable question from "Don't Want to Feel Weird in Wyoming" about navigating greetings and introductions in mixed social and professional settings. Should you go for a handshake, a hug, or something else entirely? Jenny breaks down how to read the room, establish comfort for everyone, and avoid awkward moments with a thoughtful approach to personal boundaries and cultural norms.

We'd love to know what you think about this episode! Have a question for Jenny? Head to the link and let us know. All questions are totally anonymous.

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Thank you to Aunt Jane for providing the voice over work, and the theme song is provided by simonarmitage, Pond5.